I'm sending you hugs, too. I still have my hubby, and am happily (for the most part) married, tho there are days! But I've always gotten along with guys that are anywhere from 10-15 years younger than I am. I like their vitality and their mental agility. Even today, some of my best friends are male who are in that age range for just those reasons. Luckily, hubs doesn't have a jealous bone in his body. And we've a wide group of friends who get together regularly. My problem, is I LOOK my age, and it drives me crazy. I don't FEEL 67 and I HATE looking like it, especially in my face. No one but hubs is going to see me naked, so it's no big deal that gravity has done her worst. I used to be 187; I now weight 92 pounds soaking wet. But my face shows my age. "Wisdom" lines everywhere. We're not rich enough to do anything about it, and I hate to feel that vain. I always thought I'd take aging so much more graciously. I feel so stupid, ya know? But I didn't know it'd be like THIS!!! No one told me all the changes my body would go through!!!
Did anyone else get surprised by the changes? What was your biggest surprise? Mine was finding my butt down around my knees one day! (LOL)
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