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usonian

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1. Most therapists strive to adjust people to society.
Wed Jun 11, 2025, 03:05 PM
Jun 11

But in many ways, society is deluded and tells us stories about ourselves that are manipulative, like "You've got to be rich or you're a nobody" or the common: "You're born a failure and can never find happiness" and so on.

These really are manipulative, and we largely accept them.

The Buddha addressed not just the symptoms of our problems, but the root of our problems, such as the fleeting nature of things, while we try to cling to them, and the stories we are taught, in which we are "stamped" as weak and doomed, when in fact the story he tells is one of inner light and infinite potential. (In the Lotus Sutra)

But on a simpler plane, if the world practiced just 4 of the 8 steps on the path, it would be a much richer and happy place.

From the free book there:

1. Wise Understanding
2. Wise Intention
3. Wise Speech
4. Wise Action

Wow. Imagine. 🪷

Wishing everyone success and happiness, because we are not so isolated as society says (for profit). We're all in this world together and can join hands to pull each other up, or not.

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Most therapists strive to adjust people to society. usonian Jun 11 #1
Very true. Many people take exception to giving up power in 12-step progams SheltieLover Jun 11 #2
There's one in my town! Thank you SL. I may check out a meeting. Clouds Passing Jun 11 #3
Check it out, Clouds, & let us know what you think. SheltieLover Jun 11 #4
I will. Clouds Passing Jun 11 #8
A lot of people don't feel like they fit in 12-step programs. SheltieLover Jun 11 #11
Here is a helpful meditation to relieve anxiety I use. multigraincracker Jun 11 #5
Ty, MGC SheltieLover Jun 11 #6
I loooove Meditative Mind. I do the chakra meditations, chants and solfeggios. Thanks for posting mgc! Clouds Passing Jun 11 #7
I was walking around in the Hollywood hills in 1967 and I heard this coming from a house. multigraincracker Jun 11 #9
A former roommate was a buddhist. She did the chant. I should have started then! Clouds Passing Jun 11 #10
For some reason I always remembered the words. Much later I started saying them. multigraincracker Jun 11 #12
They flow so beautifully Clouds Passing Jun 11 #13
Life is strange. multigraincracker Jun 11 #14
Me too with the Tao te Ching. Also tai chi as a form of moving meditation. Clouds Passing Jun 12 #16
30 years ago I took a class in tai chi. multigraincracker Jun 12 #17
Highly recommended Clouds Passing Jun 12 #18
Seniorplanet.org has free classes online daily, incl tai chi SheltieLover Jun 13 #22
Thank you for the link. multigraincracker Jun 11 #15
Yw! SheltieLover Jun 13 #20
I think it's been around for a while. bif Jun 13 #19
Yup. SheltieLover Jun 13 #21
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