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Jilly_in_VA

(14,405 posts)
Sat Apr 4, 2026, 02:00 PM Yesterday

I Spent 32 Years Believing I Was Male. Then A Shocking Phone Call Exploded Everything I Knew.

The day after Donald Trump’s inauguration, I opened my phone to a news update saying the president had signed an executive order mandating that the government acknowledge only two sexes: male and female.

It felt like someone had walked up behind me and walloped me over the head with a phone book. I was angered by the basic misinformation and willful ignorance that this declaration promotes about an individual’s sex.
(BIG snip)

“During male spermatogenesis, X and Y chromosomes perform their typical recombination in the pseudoautosomal regions,” she said while drawing a diagram of the complicated process on a blank sheet of paper on the table in front of me.

“But during your own development” — the student circled a portion of my father’s Y chromosome — “one gene, the SRY gene, translocated from the Y chromosome to your X chromosome. So, from your karyotype chromosomal testing you’re considered female, but you likely grew up being classified as male, given your external expression.”

It was a mouthful. I tried to repeat words back to the three of them, but it was like trying to recite a foreign language for the first time. The translocation of an SRY gene meant that some development of male sex organs had occurred. The primary implications for me were that I had external genitalia matching a stereotypical male, but my internal functioning was more blurred, including irregular hormone production and likely infertility. As I stumbled over my words, my geneticist broke down the big concepts further.

“How do you feel about the word ‘intersex’?” she asked.

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/intersex-dna-test-results-gender-identity-trans_n_69d13afce4b05047ac8e9e95?origin=home-whats-happening-unit

MAGATs and Shitler are too stupid, sometimes willfully so, to understand any of this.

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I Spent 32 Years Believing I Was Male. Then A Shocking Phone Call Exploded Everything I Knew. (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Yesterday OP
I think it is just another wedge issue to drive people apart. We're all mixtures of lots of things. erronis Yesterday #1
They can't begin to understand the human genome. Hell they can't even stand the understand theinternational oil market Walleye Yesterday #2
To be fair Jilly_in_VA Yesterday #3
Exactly. That's why we have experts. Unfortunately RFK jr keeps firing them. Walleye Yesterday #4
The basic premise is BeneteauBum Yesterday #5
It's Science... slightlv Yesterday #6
They want science to be all plain and simple. GreenWave Yesterday #8
I have a friend who is a brain physiologist. He has done research on the brain Sogo Yesterday #7
Here at the dawn of Understanding... BurnDoubt Yesterday #9

erronis

(23,935 posts)
1. I think it is just another wedge issue to drive people apart. We're all mixtures of lots of things.
Sat Apr 4, 2026, 02:04 PM
Yesterday

And these politicians (ideologues) will pick on a few distinctions for triggers.

Walleye

(44,898 posts)
2. They can't begin to understand the human genome. Hell they can't even stand the understand theinternational oil market
Sat Apr 4, 2026, 02:05 PM
Yesterday

BeneteauBum

(526 posts)
5. The basic premise is
Sat Apr 4, 2026, 04:13 PM
Yesterday

we’re all human. Let’s just leave it like that and embrace our differences without rancor.

Peace ☮️

slightlv

(7,795 posts)
6. It's Science...
Sat Apr 4, 2026, 04:49 PM
Yesterday

and they don't do science.. beyond combining flour and water to make pasty goo...

Sogo

(7,205 posts)
7. I have a friend who is a brain physiologist. He has done research on the brain
Sat Apr 4, 2026, 05:04 PM
Yesterday

functioning spectrum in relation to sexual/gender expression. It's definitely not a black and white issue.

But how the hell did any of this morph into a political issue??!! I'm guessing it's because the Rs can't get past anything pertaining to gender except in a purely salacious way. Their emotional development was arrested somewhere in middle school.

BurnDoubt

(1,749 posts)
9. Here at the dawn of Understanding...
Sat Apr 4, 2026, 05:06 PM
Yesterday

Ignorance is King!
The people who are making decisions for ALL of us, based on their cherry-picked evidence gleaned from their One Book, flex their Hubris and “do their own research” among the chattering-class and declare themselves experts.
The Wonders of Nature were all explained over the last couple of Millenia by a small cadre of users who put themselves in charge of everything based on their opinions, and declared themselves the keepers of Truth and Wisdom.
The evidence is changing every day, and is starting to reveal the depth of our ignorance (and stupidity).
Because Evolution is a Hoax, most of what is known about Genetics is damned by the Powers That Be as heresy to preserve their Primacy over Human thought.
I believe we will learn much more about how our bodies work in the near future. Here at the threshold, it’s beginning to look like the astonishing diversity of Creation is incredibly random, resulting in so many variations on the theme of “Life”, so that every individual expression of Life is totally unique in its expression and composition. Indeed, a vast multitude of these creations are so unfit at their inception as to be unviable. Every recipe is different, and will result in a one-of-a-kind creation, complete with blessings and curses.
No two people are the same.
So… we all need to take a step back and give our fellow creatures the space to be who/what they have been chosen by a random Universe to be.
And people with only opinions for back-up should find their own lane and stay out of the way.
I’m glad you are getting to know more, and are working with people who can help you navigate this new landscape. It’s entirely possible the same DNA that has thrown you a curve-ball may also have endowed you with some advantages as well, even a Super Power. I wish you well on your Journey.

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