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Donkees

(33,647 posts)
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 05:51 AM Dec 2025

Rest in Grace, Elleng


Photo - Douglas Liu

When despair for the world grows in me...

I go and lie down where the wood drake
rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds.
I come into the peace of wild things
who do not tax their lives with forethought
of grief. I come into the presence of still water.
And I feel above me the day-blind stars
waiting with their light. For a time
I rest in the grace of the world, and am free.
- Wendell Berry


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Rest in Grace, Elleng (Original Post) Donkees Dec 2025 OP
K&R.nt jfz9580m Dec 2025 #1
So so sorry montanacowboy Dec 2025 #2
Oh No! calimary Dec 2025 #3
I am so sorry to learn of her passing. Silver Gaia Dec 2025 #4
Nooooooooooooo!!!!!! fierywoman Dec 2025 #5
Heartbreaking to read this Grim Chieftain Dec 2025 #6
Beautiful and appropriate dedication to the memory and spirit of our elleng hlthe2b Dec 2025 #7
Sorry to ask..... FarPoint Dec 2025 #8
One of her daughters posted on Facebook mnhtnbb Dec 2025 #19
I didn't think she was ill.... FarPoint Dec 2025 #23
I never met her, but I feel like I've lost a friend. Rest in grace and power elleng Walleye Dec 2025 #9
Same for me DeeDeeNY Dec 2025 #38
Rest in peace Dr. Shepper Dec 2025 #10
So sorry gademocrat7 Dec 2025 #11
I do believe that elleng would love this Wendell Berry tribute. llmart Dec 2025 #12
A beautiful tribute to EllenG SheltieLover Dec 2025 #13
She has rejoined the sacred migration, the great turning in the sky Donkees Dec 2025 #16
Indeed SheltieLover Dec 2025 #18
One her osprey pics Dear_Prudence Dec 2025 #39
Ty! SheltieLover Dec 2025 #40
Always felt like we were neighbors. we can do it Dec 2025 #14
I am soooo sorry to hear this! Trueblue Texan Dec 2025 #15
Thank you for this lovely tribute. mnhtnbb Dec 2025 #17
It may be related to the brain injury balance issues. A recent post of hers caught my attention. Donkees Dec 2025 #22
Thank you for your post, Donkees 70sEraVet Dec 2025 #20
I remember she loved the gliding osprey photo from a few years ago Donkees Dec 2025 #25
RIP Elleng, and thank you for letting us know JMCKUSICK Dec 2025 #21
You will be missed MiHale Dec 2025 #24
... littlemissmartypants Dec 2025 #26
I am saddened and shocked by this news AKwannabe Dec 2025 #27
Oh, my. I'm having trouble accepting her passing. I just saw a post sinkingfeeling Dec 2025 #28
I'm so very sorry. choie Dec 2025 #29
Oh no. FM123 Dec 2025 #30
Oh no! How I'll miss her kind, gracious, generous presence here. femmedem Dec 2025 #31
I'm so sad to read this! yardwork Dec 2025 #32
🦅 mwmisses4289 Dec 2025 #33
This saddens me, too Dave in VA Dec 2025 #34
.... and the Wheel turns WheelWalker Dec 2025 #35
Rest in Grace elleng Clouds Passing Dec 2025 #36
"" AllaN01Bear Dec 2025 #37

calimary

(89,841 posts)
3. Oh No!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 06:01 AM
Dec 2025

Now elleng is gone, too?

Damn. Such a vibrant member of this little hangout.

Damn.

FarPoint

(14,719 posts)
8. Sorry to ask.....
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 06:53 AM
Dec 2025

Has Ellgen been ill? This is the first I heard of this....What happened?

mnhtnbb

(33,310 posts)
19. One of her daughters posted on Facebook
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:06 AM
Dec 2025

just a few hours ago. There were no details. To my knowledge, she hadn't been ill.

FarPoint

(14,719 posts)
23. I didn't think she was ill....
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:24 AM
Dec 2025

I'm deeply saddened....thank you for this update.... she was beloved by me here with her posts and feedback...

DeeDeeNY

(3,949 posts)
38. Same for me
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:30 PM
Dec 2025

I had more chats with her than anyone else here. She told me how she had been a lawyer, and about her father, who had a law practice in New York City many years ago, and I shared with her how I'd spent over 50 years working as a paralegal at a large New York law firm. She took beautiful photos and always had interesting recipes. Just an overall good soul.

llmart

(17,563 posts)
12. I do believe that elleng would love this Wendell Berry tribute.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:33 AM
Dec 2025

I didn't know her but always read her posts. She seemed like such a kind soul.

SheltieLover

(79,817 posts)
13. A beautiful tribute to EllenG
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:45 AM
Dec 2025

Ty for sharing with us

I will forever cherish memories of EllenG's posts of her Osprey nest & the young birds' development.

And now EllenG soars with the Osprey.

Trueblue Texan

(4,406 posts)
15. I am soooo sorry to hear this!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:58 AM
Dec 2025

She was just here…and now she’s gone. I will miss her wisdom. An important part of our family here, missed by most, I suspect.

mnhtnbb

(33,310 posts)
17. Thank you for this lovely tribute.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:04 AM
Dec 2025

I was shocked to see the post from one of her daughters on Facebook just a few hours ago. To my knowledge, she hadn't been ill.
I've just checked and there are still no details added to that post.

Donkees

(33,647 posts)
22. It may be related to the brain injury balance issues. A recent post of hers caught my attention.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:23 AM
Dec 2025

70sEraVet

(5,445 posts)
20. Thank you for your post, Donkees
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:10 AM
Dec 2025

For passing along such inspiring photos and a beautifully appropriate poem, to go with news that saddens us all. I remember her being so excited at the sight of an Osprey.
Go gentle, elleng.

AKwannabe

(6,889 posts)
27. I am saddened and shocked by this news
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:52 AM
Dec 2025

Interacted mostly in the cooking and baking forum and she was also excited by food.

RIP friend

sinkingfeeling

(57,736 posts)
28. Oh, my. I'm having trouble accepting her passing. I just saw a post
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:54 AM
Dec 2025

of her Canadia Geese the other day. She will be greatly missed and lovingly remembered.

FM123

(10,360 posts)
30. Oh no.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:58 AM
Dec 2025

I am so sorry to hear the sad news, her presence here on DU will truly be missed.

femmedem

(8,553 posts)
31. Oh no! How I'll miss her kind, gracious, generous presence here.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:03 AM
Dec 2025

Thank you for sharing the news with us, sad as it is. It's better to know than to perpetually wonder.

Dave in VA

(2,283 posts)
34. This saddens me, too
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:46 AM
Dec 2025

feels like loosing a family member. Peace to her family. Thanks for posting and letting us know Donkees.

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