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Bayard

(29,245 posts)
Mon Mar 2, 2026, 12:10 AM 4 hrs ago

Reverse Mortgages

I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this question, but I didn't see anything else closer.

Anyone out there have experience with reverse mortgages?

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alwaysinasnit

(5,591 posts)
1. We had a neighbor, an elderly gentleman, who apparently did one of those. It was not uncommon
Mon Mar 2, 2026, 12:40 AM
4 hrs ago

to go weeks without catching sight of him - he was not very friendly. The first indications we had about his passing were the legal notices posted in several places on the front of the house. Long story short, the adult child/children fought the reverse mortgage and won. Apparently the old gentleman might have had some cognitive issues that the reverse mortgage company took advantage of. My best recommendation is to consult with an experienced attorney about the potential pitfalls. You can try going through a local lawyer referral service. Good luck!

3Hotdogs

(15,255 posts)
2. From what I've read or heard, it's a bad choice for most people. If you outlive the term of the mortgage, you may lose
Mon Mar 2, 2026, 12:50 AM
4 hrs ago

your house. If you are having trouble keeping up with the expense of running the house, consider selling it instead.

The only time I would consider a reverse is if I were given a terminal diagnosis.

Grins

(9,384 posts)
3. AVOID!!! Lots of articles out there.
Mon Mar 2, 2026, 02:08 AM
2 hrs ago

Think of it as a credit card with all your equity from the sale, say $100,000, given to you by the reverse mortgage company.

You think you have $100k, but it’s actually an annuity to the mortgage company. And every month they take their cut. And one day, years later, you turn around and, “Where’s my dough???”

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