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(34,514 posts)Attilatheblond
(9,291 posts)Should never have been a reason for that wall.
LuckyCharms
(23,163 posts)Ptah
(34,167 posts)MLAA
(19,810 posts)Niagara
(12,167 posts)Ptah
(34,167 posts)calimary
(90,913 posts)Im sure those named were listed with total, honest reverence, the greatest respect, and sadness, even heartache.
But still
Its hard to pick which pain is biggest:
The moms, who ALL remember those hours in that maternity ward;
The widows - I cant even begin to imagine the intensity of their heartbreak;
The children of those lost, who will never know that departed parent;
The dads whod been so proud;
Anybody who had a memory of one of those guys, from school or the neighborhood or a first job
I guess this is what is meant by a world of hurt.
pat_k
(13,918 posts)It was about a ten years after it was dedicated, spring of 1992 I think. If that's right, then I was 31.
The people killed in that war that I knew about were generally "once removed" -- friends of friends who were older than me, so I had no great personal loss to mourn there.
I'm not sure what it was that finally undid me. The seemingly endless list of names? The mementos? Photos, cigars, dog tags left at the base of the wall?
It was all so much. But I think what started my tears was a little pooh bear, clearly well-used by a child who was later lost. I had to walk away because my crying was becoming almost hysterical, and what right did I have to such reaction? None of my nearest and dearest were on that wall.
I cried uncontrollably for so, so long. I will never quite understand why I lost it so, but that wall is so, so powerful a reminder of precious lives lost.
70sEraVet
(5,640 posts)They should draft old politicians first.
Permanut
(8,592 posts)Two of my high school classmates are also on the wall.

