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You identified the key issue. You couldn't function anymore
Keeping him home was a risk for both of of you. I have been in your shoes. It was emotionally the most difficult and intellectually the easiest decision to make.
Honestly, you will be dealing with this for an unpredictable period of time. Your instinct is to do it yourself. It’s what we want and and what we expect of ourselves. Realistically, we need help. You recognized that and acted accordingly.
You have been a compassionate caregiver for your husband. There is no easy path. Time to have compassion for yourself.