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CaptainTruth

(8,326 posts)
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 06:41 PM 11 hrs ago

My DU friends, what are your plans for this Fourth of July?

In the past I celebrated, I celebrated the birth of our country. This year... it feels like the death of our country.

It's not a celebration, it's a funeral.

I'm not planning to celebrate at all, & I'm going to do my best to avoid the local parades, fireworks, etc. I don't want to see any of it. It will be a day of mourning.

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My DU friends, what are your plans for this Fourth of July? (Original Post) CaptainTruth 11 hrs ago OP
Not a thing. piddyprints 11 hrs ago #1
Barbecue with friends Mz Pip 11 hrs ago #2
happy birthday to your kid. enjoy the margaritas. orleans 9 hrs ago #40
Many Happy Returns to your second son! littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #52
Happy Birthday to your son SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #67
You are not alone. PittBlue 11 hrs ago #3
We celebrate every year with a block party Lifeafter70 11 hrs ago #4
That sounds like great fun! littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #54
The kids love it Lifeafter70 7 hrs ago #94
I love artichokes. That salad sounds interesting! 🤔 littlemissmartypants 7 hrs ago #97
It's easy Lifeafter70 7 hrs ago #102
Thanks for sharing this! ❤️ littlemissmartypants 7 hrs ago #104
Sounds great electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #114
I will be having a little bbq with my protesting pals Easterncedar 11 hrs ago #5
My parents and I get together every week, and Haggard Celine 11 hrs ago #6
I will be celebrating my cat's 15th birthday MIButterfly 11 hrs ago #7
Congratulations to you both. Haggard Celine 10 hrs ago #12
🥳😻🎉 littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #56
Happy Birthday to your sweet kitty SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #68
Wooo wooo! hibbing 8 hrs ago #76
We are having a BBQ with family and friends..... anciano 11 hrs ago #8
I'm going to be manning the airports this July 4th Niagara 11 hrs ago #9
😃❤️🤍💙🤓 littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #58
Dog walk/dog park with friends at 5AM, home to install a portable air conditioner hlthe2b 11 hrs ago #10
Good luck w the A/C. Sorry your air is so contaminated w fire realated particles! electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #115
Thanks. We've had wildfires much closer in previous years, so I so feel for those directly adjacent hlthe2b 54 min ago #142
We'll cook on the grill tomorrow MustLoveBeagles 10 hrs ago #11
Personally I dont think the 250th is really the year to celebrate, I'm holding out for the 500th. Then I'll celebrate. Eko 10 hrs ago #13
Planning some cryogenic sleep?! 😉 electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #117
Figured I'd stay awake for most of it. Eko 3 hrs ago #136
Interesting times ahead, then! 😉 electric_blue68 3 hrs ago #139
My two best friends who also despise Rump tavernier 10 hrs ago #14
Sounds good! electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #116
I plan to beat the heat. I will stay indoors as much as possible Midnight Writer 10 hrs ago #15
For those with no plans, remember the July 4th Texas flood from last year. So it's a memorial day. LeftInTX 10 hrs ago #16
Many Happy Returns to your son! littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #60
Happy Birthday to your son! SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #66
I will be doing nothing. I_UndergroundPanther 10 hrs ago #17
Stay encouraged, IUP. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #62
Bong away! BeneteauBum 8 hrs ago #74
Baseball game ITAL 10 hrs ago #18
Not Much, But... ProfessorGAC 10 hrs ago #19
Not much Wicked Blue 10 hrs ago #20
I plan to shoot off a couple bottle rockets Emile 10 hrs ago #21
Do the parade in our town with Bettie 10 hrs ago #22
Not a damned thing. greatauntoftriplets 10 hrs ago #23
I'll be checking to see if St. Orrex of Perpetual Hope's dream has been realized SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #71
Oh, I'll be here. greatauntoftriplets 8 hrs ago #80
Same here! SheltieLover 8 hrs ago #82
Getting ready Manatee 10 hrs ago #24
It will be the same at our home. Prof. Toru Tanaka 10 hrs ago #25
Bought fireworks NewEnglandAutumn 10 hrs ago #26
hee hee hee (that's the chuckle sound i made after i read your post) orleans 9 hrs ago #64
Go to the park and harbor/beach. DinahMoeHum 10 hrs ago #27
Going to a kids parade downtown with daughter and grandson. NewHendoLib 10 hrs ago #28
Just another evening on my floating home..... BeneteauBum 10 hrs ago #29
Sounds great. underpants 9 hrs ago #55
It is. However, in the Keys, the heat index today was 107. BeneteauBum 8 hrs ago #83
We'll celebrate your next post since it'll be a milestone 💥 Deuxcents 5 hrs ago #111
Wife hospitalized AverageOldGuy 9 hrs ago #30
🫂❣️ littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #42
Healing vibes on the way to her SheltieLover 8 hrs ago #72
Strength to you both. A good recovery for her! electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #118
Nothing sinkingfeeling 9 hrs ago #31
Staying home. TNNurse 9 hrs ago #32
Been walking around the Boston Seaport at 98 degrees. cachukis 9 hrs ago #33
Steer clear of MAGA on the national mall IronLionZion 9 hrs ago #34
I will read DU, as usual. NT warmfeet 9 hrs ago #35
Usually go to parade in Ashland OR Tree Lady 9 hrs ago #36
Here's to a full recovery! electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #119
Staying cool at home swimboy 9 hrs ago #37
I'm in Texas - they'll be setting off fireworks everywhere TBF 9 hrs ago #38
GSP's are beautiful and smart. It sounds like yours is also entertaining. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #43
Celebrating Kelsey Pfendler! AverageJoe 9 hrs ago #39
She's absolutely crushed the previous record. An outstanding role model for... littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #47
That's incredible! BeneteauBum 8 hrs ago #79
Wow! Looked her up. electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #124
With the help of advanced notice of the heatwave Rocknation 9 hrs ago #41
Flying back to NE Minnesota from Alaska. waterwatcher123 9 hrs ago #44
Bon voyage! littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #49
Hang out with my dog in air conditioned comfort Mysterian 9 hrs ago #45
I want to be far away from everyone. COL Mustard 9 hrs ago #46
😄🌞❤️ littlemissmartypants 9 hrs ago #50
well that was an unexpected and humorous answer. i bet, if you do go there, you will be far away orleans 8 hrs ago #73
Visit local friends. No decorations. No celebration. It's just a typical trump Saturday. Wonder Why 9 hrs ago #48
used to be my favorite holiday Kali 9 hrs ago #51
glad you're at home this year, kali -- and hanging out in a pool sounds wonderful! nt orleans 7 hrs ago #98
Glad u r much better! electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #125
Watch "Jaws" with my family. underpants 9 hrs ago #53
I may do that too! redwitch 8 hrs ago #84
Is that fireworks or gunfire? Aussie105 9 hrs ago #57
Not a damn thing ZDU 9 hrs ago #59
Sip some wine - nibble on cheese, crackers and fruit while having an old movie marathon. Talitha 9 hrs ago #61
That sounds like fun. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 8 hrs ago #91
Ditto joanbarnes 9 hrs ago #63
I'm going to see the Angels vs the Red Sox. Initech 9 hrs ago #65
Not a damned thing buzzycrumbhunger 9 hrs ago #69
Won't your town or county go after the deadbeat? SheltieLover 8 hrs ago #81
I'm in Floriduh buzzycrumbhunger 8 hrs ago #86
I would try to get whichever jurisdiction issued the support order SheltieLover 8 hrs ago #92
Will try buzzycrumbhunger 8 hrs ago #93
They should prosecute him, regardless of where he lives SheltieLover 7 hrs ago #95
Check out the requirements for receiving half his social security..must be divorced 10 years and not remarried Deuxcents 5 hrs ago #112
Oh, wow! buzzycrumbhunger 3 hrs ago #134
Good graciousness! : ( May you get what's properly owed you, and soon!! electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #127
Just checked regarding statues of limitations Lifeafter70 7 hrs ago #105
Even before I read your last line... electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #128
More great advise! buzzycrumbhunger 3 hrs ago #137
I'm watching my son's dog, we're having a nice time. dem4decades 9 hrs ago #70
Hopefully fly my drone hibbing 8 hrs ago #75
Cool. littlemissmartypants 8 hrs ago #89
Oooo, hyperlapse - interesting! What about slow-mo? electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #129
Just my husband and me. Staying home in the air conditioning... 3catwoman3 8 hrs ago #77
Work and comfort ptsd kitties, manage my ptsd MerryBlooms 8 hrs ago #78
I'm going to... littlemissmartypants 8 hrs ago #85
we just adopted a dog DBoon 8 hrs ago #87
I figured I would clean my toilet synni 8 hrs ago #88
Hanging cement board on the face of my fireplace Phoenix61 8 hrs ago #90
I'm going to the church to practice the organ music for Sunday. oberle 7 hrs ago #96
Cleaning then friends Delarage 7 hrs ago #99
Happy Birthday to your foster son! 🥳 littlemissmartypants 7 hrs ago #103
Absolutely nothing Luciferous 7 hrs ago #100
Try to stay cool EdmondDantes_ 7 hrs ago #101
A storm with high winds cracked a huge branch and some smaller ones off our trees toay Martin Eden 7 hrs ago #106
Cookout with a dozen friends CanonRay 7 hrs ago #107
Congratulations on your new home! littlemissmartypants 4 hrs ago #122
Congrats! Enjoy! electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #130
My girl friend and I are getting married tomorrow, MarineCombatEngineer 7 hrs ago #108
Congratulations 🥂 would love some pictures. Going anywhere for a honeymoon? Deuxcents 5 hrs ago #113
Yay!! That's fantastic, MCE!! Congratulations to You and your Bride! littlemissmartypants 4 hrs ago #121
Wonderful! 💞 electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #131
It's dangerously hot here and there is a burn ban in place. Solly Mack 6 hrs ago #109
I share you concerns about fire, SM. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 4 hrs ago #120
Some folks around here refuse to heed the ban - making them a danger to us all. Solly Mack 4 hrs ago #123
Good luck for your whole area!! electric_blue68 3 hrs ago #133
Thanks. Here's hoping. Solly Mack 3 hrs ago #141
Working. I'm a nurse. Maru Kitteh 6 hrs ago #110
Help my family flee the country RandySF 4 hrs ago #126
Safe travels! And a good visit! electric_blue68 3 hrs ago #135
Celebrating my partner's birthday róisín_dubh 4 hrs ago #132
A successful surgery and recovery! electric_blue68 3 hrs ago #138
I'm in NYC. It'll be about 102F. Staying inside, and.... electric_blue68 3 hrs ago #140

Mz Pip

(28,549 posts)
2. Barbecue with friends
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 06:50 PM
11 hrs ago

We probably won’t see any fireworks, though. It’s supposed to be foggy.

Hope Trump melts during his speech and the nobody is there to throw a bucket of cold water on him.
I’m not going to let that creep ruin my day. My second son was born on the 4th of July so it’s been an extra special day for us. 🎉 We’ll have a good time drinking Margaritas.

Don’t let MAGA ruin your day. It’s not about Trump, as much as he wants to make it so.

orleans

(37,529 posts)
40. happy birthday to your kid. enjoy the margaritas.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:47 PM
9 hrs ago

it seems there are so many of us (me included) feeling blah, down, blue, pissed, etc and not in the "spirit"

but i think it's great that some of the real patriots (not the fake magat types) can get beyond the darkness of late and celebrate. i just don't have the energy or the heart for it. plus the weather is too hot and lots of storms. so...

Lifeafter70

(1,281 posts)
4. We celebrate every year with a block party
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 06:54 PM
11 hrs ago

We set up a water slide bounce house in our driveway for the kids. All the neighbors set up tables and BBQ on our front lawns with food for everyone to share.

It's great that we live on a one way street close to downtown so there is little to no traffic.

Lifeafter70

(1,281 posts)
94. The kids love it
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:25 PM
7 hrs ago

I will be making BBQ ribs and chicken
BBQ beans corn bread and honey butter pasta artichoke salad and a mozzarella tomato and basil dish
I prefer not to stand over a hot grill
Will make it in early am and put in a large crackpots

Lifeafter70

(1,281 posts)
102. It's easy
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:54 PM
7 hrs ago

Tri colored pasta spirals, thin sliced baby cucumbers, grilled juillien tomatoes in olive oil drained, sliced black olives, grilled artichoke hearts in oil drained and a good balsamic vinigaett. I get all my ingredients at Trader Joe's makes a large batch for about 10 bucks. The hardest part is cooking the pasta lol
Always al dente.

Easterncedar

(6,694 posts)
5. I will be having a little bbq with my protesting pals
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 06:55 PM
11 hrs ago

Hanging out with like-minded folks is better than being sad. As Joe Hill said, "Don't mourn, organize!"

Haggard Celine

(18,043 posts)
6. My parents and I get together every week, and
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 06:59 PM
11 hrs ago

this week it falls on the Fourth. So we might have a special sort of lunch, maybe BBQ chicken and potato salad and baked beans. Some kind of typical holiday fare. Then we'll probably watch our murder shows, especially Dateline. Then I'll come home and have the cat in my lap as the fireworks are going off. So it sounds like a pretty good day.

Niagara

(12,440 posts)
9. I'm going to be manning the airports this July 4th
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 07:16 PM
11 hrs ago

with my Revolutionary War fighter plane just like George Washington did in 1776!!!






On a serious note, I never celebrate July 4th. I was saying last night what a stark contrast from teenage/young adult me to quinquagenarian me. I couldn't wait for July 4th as a teen and young adult. I also live near Niagara Falls State Park and the park shoots off fireworks every Friday or Saturday night during the summer at 10pm so there's nothing special about fireworks for me.


I watch this documentary that's on YouTube every July 4th called The White House Inside Story. It's worth the 1 hour 54 minutes to watch.

hlthe2b

(115,321 posts)
10. Dog walk/dog park with friends at 5AM, home to install a portable air conditioner
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 07:21 PM
11 hrs ago

(the air/exhaust has to fit into a screened window, unlike last year so it may be challenging but I just can't wait any longer!). I am hoping the sounds of the portable a/c will mute any firecrackers---though they are intensely "verboten" this year (as last) due to wildfires. The ozone and wildfire particulates are so bad, I don't have any desire to go to a cookout or do so myself (though my sweet doggy girl would undoubtedly love a ribeye! LOL)

Later, listen to some good music or catch up on some streaming series or movies--or I suppose I could read a bunch of medical journals piling up the past weeks. I will strive to go to bed early, regardless.

I'm betting there are some doing more interesting things... If so, enjoy!

electric_blue68

(28,040 posts)
115. Good luck w the A/C. Sorry your air is so contaminated w fire realated particles!
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 01:39 AM
4 hrs ago

I remember some scary posts w pics anout 2+ yrs ago of the at smoke, and particles from several areas.

May your area, and beyond stay safe !!

hlthe2b

(115,321 posts)
142. Thanks. We've had wildfires much closer in previous years, so I so feel for those directly adjacent
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 05:30 AM
54 min ago

--mostly in Southern Colorado. Still, the entire region gets the aftermath when there are multiple fires blowing particulates, and this intense heat with seasonal ozone issues only magnifies. Those with respiratory issues really suffer and those in the direct path of these fires (and sadly, that includes the wildlife) are in my thoughts, hopes, and prayers. Sadly, with climate change we will all face some hardships no matter where we live. I likewise feel for those on the East Coast without a way to cool off and who may face life-threatening conditions with this blast of heat.

For those who do wish to memorialize and commemorate the 4th (not really "celebrate" this year, I think), I wish you all a nice day. I can remember 1976 (especially the tall ships in NYC harbor)--despite being quite young-- when the nation really DID celebrate, so I am lucky.

MustLoveBeagles

(18,475 posts)
11. We'll cook on the grill tomorrow
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 07:26 PM
10 hrs ago

Later we'll comfort our dogs during the fireworks. I predict it will be bad this year.

Eko

(10,253 posts)
13. Personally I dont think the 250th is really the year to celebrate, I'm holding out for the 500th. Then I'll celebrate.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 07:40 PM
10 hrs ago

tavernier

(14,585 posts)
14. My two best friends who also despise Rump
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 07:41 PM
10 hrs ago

Are coming over. I’m making submarine sandwiches and homemade potato chips and they are bringing the liquor and the potato salad and the dessert. We plan to watch Hamilton after.

Midnight Writer

(26,045 posts)
15. I plan to beat the heat. I will stay indoors as much as possible
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 07:51 PM
10 hrs ago

use fans to keep the air moving, have plenty of cold drinks on hand.

Probably lounge around the house, read a lot, play some computer games, scratch my dog's belly.

A day pretty much like today.

LeftInTX

(35,034 posts)
16. For those with no plans, remember the July 4th Texas flood from last year. So it's a memorial day.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 07:59 PM
10 hrs ago

It's my son's Bday, so we're having a party for him.

Certainly not going to be anything like 1976, however.

I_UndergroundPanther

(13,419 posts)
17. I will be doing nothing.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:01 PM
10 hrs ago

Every day this cadre of evil remains in the people’s house I don’t feel like celebrating anything including this year. I love fireworks and I bet they’ll be extra special but no it just makes me sad. Like watching a sparkly funeral procession for our country.


However if trump dies I’ll celebrate my ass off and that kind of celebration requires the pulling out the 20” inch zong bong. It would be a blast. Party all night.

ITAL

(1,455 posts)
18. Baseball game
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:02 PM
10 hrs ago

I'm not letting current events get me down. Baseball and fireworks with my wife.

ProfessorGAC

(77,730 posts)
19. Not Much, But...
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:02 PM
10 hrs ago

...we never made that big a deal out of the 4th.
Even if we grill or something, we do that so often in the summer, that it's not anything special on the 4th.
Our city did the fireworks last weekend, and I don't play with fireworks, so it should be pretty much a normal Saturday.
Plus, I can't get on board with the "funeral" analogy. As disgusting as The Failure's administration is, I'm not going to let it spoil my day-to-day life.

Bettie

(20,049 posts)
22. Do the parade in our town with
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:09 PM
10 hrs ago

the county Democratic party float....then, hang with my husband and kids and ignore the rest of the bullshit going on.

We're making gyros (found ground lamb at Hy Vee) and my oldest son is home. Got two of my three boys here, plus the husband and we'll have a great time together. We can watch the fireworks from our yard, so that will be good too.

Prof. Toru Tanaka

(2,993 posts)
25. It will be the same at our home.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:16 PM
10 hrs ago

And I won’t hang out the flag, either. I want to feel happy on our country’s birthday but I am angry and disillusioned instead.

I will post a flag here and wish all DUers a happy and safe 4th of July weekend!

DinahMoeHum

(23,778 posts)
27. Go to the park and harbor/beach.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:23 PM
10 hrs ago

Firemen's fair is in full swing this week, started July 1 with the firemen's parade.

Tomorrow night, fireworks (weather willing)

Although I've witnessed fireworks in NYC and aboard boats, to me, there's no place like my old home town, where I grew up and went to the schools.

NewHendoLib

(61,953 posts)
28. Going to a kids parade downtown with daughter and grandson.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:23 PM
10 hrs ago

Local brewery to see a Pink Floyd tribute band at night. Gardening and hammock time in between.

BeneteauBum

(999 posts)
83. It is. However, in the Keys, the heat index today was 107.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:38 PM
8 hrs ago

No AC, just three fans. Basic minimal living, low carbon footprint……my choice.

Peace ☮️

TNNurse

(7,565 posts)
32. Staying home.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:37 PM
9 hrs ago

Getting up early to do outside chores before it is beastly HOT. I will pick blueberries and my husband will work on that dead tree that fell. Then inside, hot dogs for supper because we like them.

Will not watch any crap on TV. Please let us know if he actually keels over in the heat.

cachukis

(4,217 posts)
33. Been walking around the Boston Seaport at 98 degrees.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:37 PM
9 hrs ago

Came early before 4th of July cruise that departs under fireworks tomorrow night.
Not sensed any chatter about the sesquicentennial.
Long, short walk from Northern Ave to our hotel. Had to stop frequently. We are not young. Passersby offered water and one from a grill walked up two cold cups. That struck me more about the patriots from my olde town than any celebration.
A lot of good Americans will will it on. Haven't given up on what will come out of the wreckage.
Wouldn't it be nice if we faced reality and make it better.
Happy Birthday.

IronLionZion

(51,735 posts)
34. Steer clear of MAGA on the national mall
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:39 PM
9 hrs ago

I'll watch the fireworks from across the river in Arlington, VA and cook up some kosher Hebrew National hot dogs

Tree Lady

(13,455 posts)
36. Usually go to parade in Ashland OR
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:40 PM
9 hrs ago

But with my hip recovery going slow and parking may be far away not going.

Nighttime last few years my golden has been more and more afraid so we stay home with him and turn tv on loud.

swimboy

(7,332 posts)
37. Staying cool at home
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:42 PM
9 hrs ago

Husband and I will grill some Hebrew National hot dogs and enjoy beans and corn on the cob. Glow it up with a martini and work a jigsaw puzzle.

We are hoping to celebrate Independence Day in November!

TBF

(37,706 posts)
38. I'm in Texas - they'll be setting off fireworks everywhere
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:43 PM
9 hrs ago

I definitely don't feel like celebrating but will take a long walk with my dog. He's a gsp and points at the fireworks when they go off which is pretty amusing.

AverageJoe

(2,428 posts)
39. Celebrating Kelsey Pfendler!
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:47 PM
9 hrs ago

It looks like she’ll be making landfall in Oahu within the next few hours. What an amazing achievement!

I’m genuinely thrilled.

littlemissmartypants

(35,653 posts)
47. She's absolutely crushed the previous record. An outstanding role model for...
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:06 PM
9 hrs ago

Strength, grace, perseverance, and resilience. Great qualities for life's journey.

Excellent idea, AverageJoe!

electric_blue68

(28,040 posts)
124. Wow! Looked her up.
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 02:05 AM
4 hrs ago

Once about 61 yrs ago, staying over at neighbor's summer home in the countryside I rowed out to the middle of the lake at night. Tall fir trees surrounding a lot of it.
Laid back against the tire, and looked up at the stars.
Glorious!

Rocknation

(45,014 posts)
41. With the help of advanced notice of the heatwave
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 08:49 PM
9 hrs ago

I very purposely arranged to be involved in project for which a minimum of 48 hours of incarceration, not having to do anything more strenuous than type, and listening to my favorite genre of music are very much to my advantage. I mean, President DuhDon has been making the same speech since 2026.


Rocknation

Mysterian

(6,771 posts)
45. Hang out with my dog in air conditioned comfort
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:03 PM
9 hrs ago

And hope for no wildfires from dumbasses with their stupid fireworks.

COL Mustard

(8,500 posts)
46. I want to be far away from everyone.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:05 PM
9 hrs ago

So I'm going to the Great American State Fair!

ETA: Not original, stolen from wherever I saw it earlier...still damn funny.

orleans

(37,529 posts)
73. well that was an unexpected and humorous answer. i bet, if you do go there, you will be far away
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:25 PM
8 hrs ago

from everyone.

Kali

(56,996 posts)
51. used to be my favorite holiday
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:09 PM
9 hrs ago

current events have pretty much sapped my enthusiasm for celebrating but will grill some dogs and have the usual sides. nobody in this house drinks anymore besides me so I don't much either, but I bought a couple canned cocktails that I may indulge in. hang in the pool, light off a handful of leftover fireworks from years prior I have laying around.

last year I was in a skilled nursing facility at this time so there is that to celebrate. whee!

orleans

(37,529 posts)
98. glad you're at home this year, kali -- and hanging out in a pool sounds wonderful! nt
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:40 PM
7 hrs ago

Aussie105

(8,378 posts)
57. Is that fireworks or gunfire?
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:12 PM
9 hrs ago

For your safety and the safety of any timid pets, everybody should stay indoors.

Nothing to celebrate anyway.

Talitha

(8,255 posts)
61. Sip some wine - nibble on cheese, crackers and fruit while having an old movie marathon.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:14 PM
9 hrs ago

I love the old B&Ws from the 30's and 40's. They just don't make 'em like that anymore.

Initech

(109,732 posts)
65. I'm going to see the Angels vs the Red Sox.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:17 PM
9 hrs ago

Will the game suck? Probably. But at least I'll get to hang with the "sell the team" crowd!

buzzycrumbhunger

(2,455 posts)
69. Not a damned thing
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:21 PM
9 hrs ago

Got laid off from fucking Walgeens in mid April (bought out by a hedge fund who’s jettisoning staff and stores, and I predict the company will fold as soon as they’ve sucked anything from value from it), my unemployment has about three weeks left, and I’ve had exactly two interviews and was passed over. My son (one leg) is likewise struggling to find a job. Four parrots, three cats, a shitty rental our crap doesn’t even fit in, and wondering where the hell we’re all going to go once we can’t pay rent in a month or two. I have an ex who owes me 17 years’ worth of alimony from a divorce in fucking 2003 (daughter just found his address) and can’t even afford to hire a lawyer to get on his arse and resume paying the debt.

This timeline offers nothing to celebrate and fighting traffic to watch shit blow up would hardly feel like a respite—unless it was the ex--especially because there’s nothing even outside my life to celebrate.

This timeline just sucks in all ways possible.

Good vibes, if you’ve got extra. *sigh*

buzzycrumbhunger

(2,455 posts)
86. I'm in Floriduh
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:50 PM
8 hrs ago

… he buggered off to Iowa.

Who knows at this point. Daughter is pissed because she tracked him down and he’s bought a house listed on Zillow at $400K, and because he left me with a termite-ridden house and then failed to provide alimony, I lost it and we’ve been hanging on by the skin of our teeth since.

And he’s on wifey #3 now, and has become a holy roller on top of this, which just adds to the irony. What does his Jeebus teach about stiffing your wife on alimony, I wonder…

I dodged a bullet in the ways that matter but man, life shouldn’t be this hard. Guess I should’ve gotten busy to find a replacement in these last 23 years, but my self esteem just took too big a hit to have the nerve to go looking for a proper man. Let me be a cautionary tale, I guess.

SheltieLover

(82,885 posts)
92. I would try to get whichever jurisdiction issued the support order
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:06 PM
8 hrs ago

To go after him!

So sorry for the clusterfuck you are in.

buzzycrumbhunger

(2,455 posts)
93. Will try
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:16 PM
8 hrs ago

I just found the old divorce decree and planned to write to the court to see if they’ll enforce it. Glad my daughter is a determined little bitch because now I can pinpoint his address so all they’d have to do is communicate with the court in IA. Fingers crossed!

SheltieLover

(82,885 posts)
95. They should prosecute him, regardless of where he lives
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:27 PM
7 hrs ago

He is in violation of a court order! And I hope you get interest tacked onto what the asshole owes you!

I know IL would def go after him, but FL is a whole other universe.

I think there was recent legislation passed to rescind passports for those damned deadbeats. Sorry, I don't know the particulars, but a little sleuthing should yield results.

Best of luck to you!

Oh to be a fly on the wall when the asshat is served! Blow his life up! And, whatever he owes for divorce #2 was entered after your court order, so you are 1st to collect! (I'm not a lawyer, just speaking generally from others' experiences.)

Pls keep us posted!

Kudos to your daughter!

Deuxcents

(28,373 posts)
112. Check out the requirements for receiving half his social security..must be divorced 10 years and not remarried
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 01:02 AM
5 hrs ago

I don’t know if he must be receiving benefits before you can collect but the requirements are on line. He can be remarried but you cannot ..I’d check

buzzycrumbhunger

(2,455 posts)
134. Oh, wow!
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 02:27 AM
3 hrs ago

That’s really great advice! Never occurred to me to think along those lines…

Married 23 miserable years and divorced in 2003. Never brave enough to risk another disaster, so I should be well within the parameters.

Lifeafter70

(1,281 posts)
105. Just checked regarding statues of limitations
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 11:07 PM
7 hrs ago

Iowa has none but Florida has a 20 year statue from the last payment made or due not sure which. You would file a contempt of court where your divorce is filed and than file that finding with the court in Iowa. Of course you have to serve hime with both
The good thing is you can seize assets. Like a lien on his nice new house.

electric_blue68

(28,040 posts)
128. Even before I read your last line...
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 02:16 AM
4 hrs ago

"The good thing is you can seize assets."

I immediately thought 400k house!

dem4decades

(14,703 posts)
70. I'm watching my son's dog, we're having a nice time.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:22 PM
9 hrs ago

The 4th of July is just the day between the 3rd and the 5th, no big deal.

hibbing

(10,638 posts)
75. Hopefully fly my drone
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:27 PM
8 hrs ago

Do some photographs and hyperlapse film of the incredible amount of fireworks that will be going off in my neighborhood.

3catwoman3

(30,289 posts)
77. Just my husband and me. Staying home in the air conditioning...
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:29 PM
8 hrs ago

...and watching tomorrow's two World Cup's round of 16 games.

Organic chicken brats from Aldi, and potato salad and key lime pie, both from Trader Joe's, on the menu.

It's going to be hot and rainy, and I don't want to be on the menu for mosquitoes.

MerryBlooms

(12,600 posts)
78. Work and comfort ptsd kitties, manage my ptsd
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:29 PM
8 hrs ago

I've been cooking for 3 days, so can can just spend time with my ptsd kitties after caring for cl8ent and sis
Did my red/white/blue chili and sweet cornbread today.
Fried chicken couple days. Pasta salad and potato salad yesterday.
I'm pooped lol

littlemissmartypants

(35,653 posts)
85. I'm going to...
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 09:50 PM
8 hrs ago

Hang up a flag which breaking with tradition this year is a peace flag with a dove like this one:



Then I'll refill my critter water bowls and bird baths with fresh water and put out bird seed.

Then I'll cook a nice dinner, Chicken Fettuccine Alfredo with mushrooms and spinach for Princess Floof and myself. Fruit salad for dessert.

I'm going to do my damnedest to try and stay hydrated, which is a daily struggle. Heat wave or not.

Then the Princess and I will watch France hopefully beat Paraguay while she munches ice and I sip sparkling water.

🇫🇷⚽️🇫🇷

I am very thankful for my independence and freedom, so I will probably give thanks for those, too.

Independence takes many forms.

Rescue your joy.

Celebrate your freedom.

❤️🤍💙
RESIST!! ✊️

(@2diamondeyes.bsky.social) 2026-07-04T01:48:41.029Z


❤️🤍💙
RESIST!! ✊️

I hope that everyone has a lovely day!

❤️🤍💙

synni

(807 posts)
88. I figured I would clean my toilet
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:02 PM
8 hrs ago

I will celebrate again, when we have a new president and freedom is restored.

Phoenix61

(18,929 posts)
90. Hanging cement board on the face of my fireplace
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:04 PM
8 hrs ago

then tape and mud all the seams. Fun times🤣

oberle

(479 posts)
96. I'm going to the church to practice the organ music for Sunday.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:29 PM
7 hrs ago

Then go out with a friend for Poke Bowl. Then come home and snuggle my cat for the evening.

Delarage

(2,654 posts)
99. Cleaning then friends
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:42 PM
7 hrs ago

It's hot AF in Delaware, so I'll be continuing my cleaning/organizing that I have been putting off. Then getting together with my ANTIFA friends and celebrating my foster son's 14th birthday (actually born on 6/22 but he was at a YMCA camp in Maryland...where they threw him a little party) and letting our dogs play. My poor black lab has been having to get up at the crack of dawn or walking as the sun is disappearing in order to not spontaneously combust. Took her to Brandywine Creek for a swim this evening.

EdmondDantes_

(2,293 posts)
101. Try to stay cool
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 10:50 PM
7 hrs ago

I might try making a wooden sword, read, laundry. There are friends coming over in the early evening.

I've never done much for 4th of July, but Trump doesn't change much of what I do.

Martin Eden

(16,110 posts)
106. A storm with high winds cracked a huge branch and some smaller ones off our trees toay
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 11:13 PM
7 hrs ago

Last edited Sat Jul 4, 2026, 12:22 AM - Edit history (1)

Weather permitting, I've got chainsaw work to do. I suppose I can imagine I'm cutting something else.

Other than that, the wife and I might watch the Gettysburg movie with Jeff Daniels, Martin Sheen, and Stephen Lang.

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,279 posts)
108. My girl friend and I are getting married tomorrow,
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 11:20 PM
7 hrs ago

It'll draw more people than Trumpedo's colossal fuck up.

That is my fuck you to Trumpedo.

Solly Mack

(97,484 posts)
109. It's dangerously hot here and there is a burn ban in place.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 11:34 PM
6 hrs ago

I'm staying inside except for water runs for the birds and barn cats and hoping no one burns the village down.

Solly Mack

(97,484 posts)
123. Some folks around here refuse to heed the ban - making them a danger to us all.
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 02:01 AM
4 hrs ago

They have been lighting fireworks/firecrackers for a few days now. The village does a display over the water on the 4th. The people, in their own yards.

Maru Kitteh

(32,128 posts)
110. Working. I'm a nurse.
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 11:42 PM
6 hrs ago

I would rather go to the Polebridge Montana 4th of July parade. It’s kind of legendary up here. Very quirky. Lots of hippies and, well, very unique individuals.

RandySF

(88,210 posts)
126. Help my family flee the country
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 02:11 AM
4 hrs ago

Kidding. My wife and son are going to visit family overseas.

róisín_dubh

(12,414 posts)
132. Celebrating my partner's birthday
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 02:24 AM
4 hrs ago

Which was yesterday and having one last weekend out for awhile before he undergoes surgery for prostate cancer. We will enjoy no fireworks or anything, but then again, we live in England.

electric_blue68

(28,040 posts)
140. I'm in NYC. It'll be about 102F. Staying inside, and....
Sat Jul 4, 2026, 02:49 AM
3 hrs ago

will try to find some live coverage of The Tall Ships!

Some digital art. Maybe some crafting, too. Stream TV.

Maybe find some live feed at night for Macy's fireworks, but my sis will tape them for me; I'll visit her next weekend.
Ooo, maybe I'll look on line for Boston fireworks.
One year we joked Boston was better than Macy's! 😄

A mix of sadness/anger at what's happening, but also some fun. Not let him ruin it all.

Oh. I can look up old footage from '76 Tall Ships!

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