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Ten Rape Prevention Tips. (Original Post) JohnnyRingo Yesterday OP
Excellent. Diamond_Dog Yesterday #1
All ten of those work wonderfully. Iggo Yesterday #2
11. Wear a MAGA hat. No woman will come near you. walkingman Yesterday #3
That should have been in the top 5 for sure! Maru Kitteh Yesterday #32
Awful and right Easterncedar Yesterday #4
Put your hand over your drink... GopherGal Yesterday #5
DURec leftstreet Yesterday #6
Excellent. Stop such behavior at its source. MineralMan Yesterday #7
That's a lot to remember. Can I just go with "get consent"? EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #8
I would amend that. usedtobedemgurl Yesterday #11
that's fair EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #24
You enjoy your hermit life. usedtobedemgurl Yesterday #31
"No" means NO! SergeStorms Yesterday #25
Old attitudes die hard. We are no longer in the 1950's, there's no social dance that needs to be played haele Yesterday #34
The times have changed. SergeStorms 23 hrs ago #35
"Don't rape" works. Iggo Yesterday #30
Always bear in mind that she may be carrying a gun and will blow your brains out if you enter her space. milestogo Yesterday #9
Always keep in mind Lorena Bobbitt's solution to violent men. llmart Yesterday #21
Always keep in mind that a woman's dog may not be as nice as he looks milestogo Yesterday #28
Enlightening. Martin68 Yesterday #10
Get with a Just Jerome Yesterday #12
This...all day long. chowder66 Yesterday #13
Whoa PatSeg Yesterday #14
A DU Classic maxsolomon Yesterday #15
EXCELLENT!!! niyad Yesterday #16
Perfect! Quiet Em Yesterday #17
Priceless! Now we need to add children to the rape prevention tips. 1WorldHope Yesterday #18
That list creeped me out and is so necessary. Buddyzbuddy Yesterday #19
Excellent ornotna Yesterday #20
You should add: highplainsdem Yesterday #22
Avoid Egomaniacs 2na fisherman Yesterday #23
Don't become a "youth pastor," megachurch preacher or "family values" republican Mysterian Yesterday #26
K&R LetMyPeopleVote Yesterday #27
Putting the responsibility for rape directly where it belongs: with the rapist. n/t CousinIT Yesterday #29
Carry Pepper Spray or Bear Spray GopherGal Yesterday #33
Number 8 canetoad 23 hrs ago #36

GopherGal

(2,869 posts)
5. Put your hand over your drink...
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 10:27 AM
Yesterday

Last edited Mon Feb 23, 2026, 04:00 PM - Edit history (1)

so that the roofie drops into your own drink. Drink it immediately so that you pass out and don't rape anyone.

usedtobedemgurl

(1,972 posts)
11. I would amend that.
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 11:54 AM
Yesterday

Get consent, and only ask one time, then forget about it. Getting a yes on the fifth try is not getting consent!

EdmondDantes_

(1,606 posts)
24. that's fair
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 12:53 PM
Yesterday

And not be grumpy if a partner says no because there's no obligation to say yes.

But that's starting to be a lot of things to remember, so back to my hermit life. 🙃

usedtobedemgurl

(1,972 posts)
31. You enjoy your hermit life.
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 03:42 PM
Yesterday

Sorry for being picky. I have known guys who feel as long as they get a “yes,” that is consent. They will use guilt or anything else they can, but it not consent, no matter what they think. There are some real assholes out there.

I hope you have a lovely day/evening.

SergeStorms

(20,300 posts)
25. "No" means NO!
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 12:55 PM
Yesterday

It doesn't mean "maybe," it doesn't mean "if you force yourself on me, then OK," it freaking means NO!

Guys have to listen to women.

If a woman told me "no!" that was it. I knew I had reached a line she didn't want me to cross.

Above all, women are human beings, not play toys for a man's amusement.

I don't see how this is so difficult for men to understand.

haele

(15,262 posts)
34. Old attitudes die hard. We are no longer in the 1950's, there's no social dance that needs to be played
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 04:20 PM
Yesterday

Back then, if a woman wanted to have sex - or even just a swell old 2nd base or 3rd base sort of time, but didn't want to be thought of as being too loose, she used to flirt and tease until she got the situation to where she wanted.
It was a dance. Unfortunately, later, the game got really twisted and an increasing number of man-boys could't be trusted.
Sucks, but man-boys who can't respect or think of anything but their (honk-honk) are pretty much responsible for the death of flirting and mutual fun.

SergeStorms

(20,300 posts)
35. The times have changed.
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 06:12 PM
23 hrs ago

Of that there's no doubt. There were "incels" back in my day, but they didn't form a political movement and demand sex frm women. Eventually most all of them found someone. We live in an "I want it NOW" society, I guess. I see it every day.

milestogo

(22,891 posts)
9. Always bear in mind that she may be carrying a gun and will blow your brains out if you enter her space.
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 10:51 AM
Yesterday

milestogo

(22,891 posts)
28. Always keep in mind that a woman's dog may not be as nice as he looks
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 01:34 PM
Yesterday

and has nothing to lose by ripping your balls off.

Just Jerome

(470 posts)
12. Get with a
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 12:08 PM
Yesterday

workshop, seminar, webinar, church group, discussion group, CEU class, informal class, counselor, therapist, friend, or some-damned-body who can teach about the word "NO."

Buddyzbuddy

(2,386 posts)
19. That list creeped me out and is so necessary.
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 12:37 PM
Yesterday

I'm so embarrassed for my gender and continue to be fearful for the women of the world.

highplainsdem

(61,197 posts)
22. You should add:
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 12:49 PM
Yesterday

If you have power over a woman, don't tell her that her school grade or job or promotion are dependent on her letting you rape her.

2na fisherman

(293 posts)
23. Avoid Egomaniacs
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 12:51 PM
Yesterday

Avoid men who are marginal media celebrities who feel they can molest you because when you are a star they let you do it, you can do anything, grab 'em by the pu**y.

Mysterian

(6,291 posts)
26. Don't become a "youth pastor," megachurch preacher or "family values" republican
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 01:04 PM
Yesterday

I just assume these people are pedophiles and rapists.

GopherGal

(2,869 posts)
33. Carry Pepper Spray or Bear Spray
Mon Feb 23, 2026, 04:12 PM
Yesterday

If you see a woman alone in a dark parking garage, spray yourself in the face. Your gasps and coughs should create enough commotion to alert the woman as well as any bear or confidential FBI informant she is intending to meet.

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