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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsCrooks and Liars is celebrating the founding of Alcoholics Anonymous, I'm not.
AA is a fundamentalist organization, their denials are empty.
AA's "leadership" also smears actual science that is studying alcoholism, calling it "fake."
If there are those who have been helped by AA, all power to them.
But I've had encounters with people who admit they are alcoholics and druggies, who use their addictions as excuses to keep using.
https://crooksandliars.com/2025/06/alcoholics-anonymous-was-founded-90-years

FirstLight
(15,226 posts)I have never liked them, too preachy, too focused on how we're all just fucked up and can never get better. I hate something that says you are "in recovery" forever...no, I believe that you CAN grow beyond your addictions and broken pieces...and it's THERAPY, LOTS OF IT that does the heavy lifting. NO magic god is gonna absolve you and make you whole...
Had a BF back in college get busted for weed and they sent him to NA. It was all well and good for him, till he told me at some point our whole relationship never 'counted' because he was smoking ot at the time. It was so hurtful! we were engaged and he was one of the loves of my life... sad that he became a god freak and decided to get holier than thou with everyone.
Archae
(47,188 posts)Sent to NA for smoking weed?
Overkill.
IbogaProject
(4,487 posts)Yes some can't handle booze or drugs. I've heard it said that AA programs for relapse. It is also a form of self handicapping. Addictions start as being behaviors and those need to be altered and people need to learn to live with temptation around. Most people just need to avoid it and should not feel like they are trapped in a spiral if they accidentally pick up a drink. What I don't like is how courts encourage people going to meetings, which sort of sets them up with a similar peer group rather than say doing volunteer work with people who aren't drinking but doing good for others.
Jilly_in_VA
(12,085 posts)I know a lot of people who have been sober for years through it. I have nothing but good to say for its auxiliary, Al-Anon. It helped me work on myself as a co-dependent until I could stand on my own two feet and leave a marriage in which my late ex would not get sober by any means. So whatever.
Hornedfrog2000
(240 posts)But it doesnt mean it is the best thing for everyone. Being forced by the courts into it also should not he constitutional since it centered around being christian, or a god of some sort.
Archae
(47,188 posts)When first-time DUI arrests are ordered into AA.
obamanut2012
(28,516 posts)Archae
(47,188 posts)dlilafae
(184 posts)Three years, and once I figured out the how-to s, I left.
Tommy Carcetti
(43,974 posts)For whatever reason.
jmowreader
(52,398 posts)Most of what we learned was how to run a testing program, but we had a couple days out of the week in which we learned about alcoholism, how to do a bringing up the bottom session, those sorts of things. We had to do an outside project, were given several choices, and one of them was attend an AA meeting and write a report on it. I did that.
The next day I went to the instructor. Jerry, for my outside project Im going to redesign all the paperwork we use so it looks good. I could never send a soldier to that. It was so depressing I left the meeting and went to have a beer. Turns out half the students in his training sessions do the same thing.
Mosby
(18,619 posts)Today people think they represent the science behind addiction, but the AA philosophy is not data driven, they have created a set of "facts" that don't represent reality. You do have power over your addiction. You're not an addict forever, you can use some substances responsibly, you don't need to "bottom out". It's basically an ideology masquerading as clinical psychology.
Starbeach
(132 posts)Isolation accompanies addiction. Finding other humans in struggle is a lifeline for many.
spanone
(139,238 posts)I couldn't believe how much 'religion' was involved.
Archae
(47,188 posts)They do NOT like atheists.